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30th Anniversary of Roe v. Wade, January 22, 2003
FIVE STORY IDEAS ON ABORTION
This is one of five abortion-related story
ideas prepared by the Pacific Institute for Women's Health (PIWH) and
Physicians for Reproductive Choice and Health® (PRCH) in connection with the 30th
anniversary of Roe v. Wade on
January 22, 2003. Feel free
to use the text below.
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For PIWH: Stacey Freeman
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30TH ANNIVERSARY OF ROE V. WADE, JANUARY 22, 2003
The Abortion Debate:
Clash of Absolutes Fails to Reflect
Views of Ordinary Americans
Ever
since the Supreme Court's landmark Roe v. Wade decision in 1973, granting women in the United States the right to
decide if and when to have children, abortion has continued to be hotly
contested. Indeed, Americans have
come to expect a debate characterized by acrimony and outright physical
violence. Judging from the public
debate, abortion is as divisive an issue as any that has confronted the
American political system.
Pro-choice and pro-life advocates, it appears, share no common ground
and there is scant if any real communication between the two sides. This clash of absolutes does not,
however, accurately reflect the views of many "ordinary" Americans.
In an
ongoing independent project called "Abortion: Voices from Across America," an
interview team traveling around the U.S. has found that a vast majority of those
interviewed resist the absolutist views that characterize the public
debate. These "ordinary" voices,
and especially those of women who have had abortions themselves, are strikingly
absent from the public debate.
With some 1.3 million abortions taking place every year in this country
alone, it is perhaps time to listen to what they have to say. Below are a few excerpts from
interviews conducted as part of "Abortion: Voices from Across America."
Elaine, a 29-year-old accountant from Texas says: "I had an abortion when I was
16. Nobody knew but my
boyfriend. We were using a condom
and a sponge. The condom broke. It was the second time I had sex. It was Valentine's Day. We didn't tell anybody, because we both
felt like 'this is a situation that none of our friends would get in.' It's the
only time I have ever stolen. I
stole money from my brother, so that I could have the abortion. It was pretty horrible. Just everything about it was bad."
Despite
her own negative experience, her views on abortion are both
complex and nuanced: "I don't think abortion is wrong. It's a huge moral decision, but it
doesn't need to be legislated.
It's a public debate, but it's really, really private. I feel like there is not enough out
there in the ambiguous camp. The
people who are most confident about voicing their opinions are always the
people who have their minds all made up.
It's so easy for them.
Those are the people whose voices get heard because they put up a big
10x20 poster of aborted fetuses. I'd say I'm pro-choice. I hate to come down on one
side or the other, but pro-choice is great. You are
saying there is a choice there, and it sort of leaves
it up to the person, which I like."
Sophiline, a 35-year-old classical dancer from California,
talks about her abortion in similarly nuanced terms, showing that it is
possible to have respect both for life and for a woman's choice: "I grew up
in Cambodia. I have been through a
lot of terrible things in my life and I never want to kill anyone. I found out that I was pregnant when
the baby was six weeks old. It was
an accident. Our twins were just
15 months old and we thought that it was too much for us to handle another
baby. We were very sad. Even though at six weeks it didn't have
a lot of shape, it was a life.
I'm
sure that abortion to many people is morally wrong, but I think there are other
things that are morally wrong that people don't pay attention to. Within the marriage, many men play a
lesser role in childcare. Isn't
that morally wrong? If you love
this person, how could you let her work so hard by herself and not help her? There is a feeling that a woman is just
a shelter for children to be born, just a host. I think that abortion should be a choice for women."
Jennifer, a 26-year-old restaurant
manager from Mississippi, explains how she came to eschew simplistic,
absolutist views about abortion: "I grew up never understanding how a woman
could have an abortion, and then when I got pregnant I could not have the
baby. The father was a married man
and he has a disease that he is dying from and the baby would have been born
with it. I would have lost my job
and it would have killed my reputation and his reputation. I went from hating people who had
abortions to understanding why you can do it.
I was raised as a Jehovah's Witness and we were taught that
there was no way, under any circumstance - even if you were raped - that you
could have an abortion. I hate
myself for having an abortion but I don't hate other women who do it because I
don't know their circumstances. I
guess I would have to be for choice now.
I feel women should have the right to choose, that it's their
decision. I cannot stand a
hypocrite. I was a hypocrite
because I judged the women who had abortions and wondered how they could do
that. Now I have learned not to
judge until I have learned. The
bible says that God will judge you.
It does not say that humans will judge you."
For more information about the "Abortion: Voices from
Across America" project, please contact:
Lovisa Stannow, Pacific Institute for Women's Health,
(310) 478-5330.
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